The most harmful thing about a successful person is that he begins to emit advice.
I suspect that when people look back at their lives, some of the decisions they had once considered ‘major’ may not be major at all. Life is filled with a series of small decisions, some of which can have an outsized impact.
When I set out to write a novel, it was not after a major decision. It was a mere inevitability. But once I began, the first shock was how many decisions I had to make. Should the narration be in first person, what should be the voice, should the lead character do this or that, should bad things happen to the main character, should it all be happy and well? All minor decisions, by the standards of decisions, but some of them turned out to be crucial, not only to a page or the tone or the novel, but to my life.
The most harmful thing about a successful person is that he begins to emit advice. Stripped of all the frills, the advice industry has one common theme: a person saying, ‘Why can’t you be like me?’ Experts advise on decision-making itself.
Added on November 30, 2025